Edited by Anne Sorbie and Heidi Grogan

Print: 978-1-77133-912-4
228 Pages
May 2022

(M)othering will make a wonderful gift for all those who mother!

“The (M)othering anthology is as varied, complex, heart wrenching, joyful, poignant, warm, fraught, funny, whimsical, tragic, contradictory, and lovely as the experience of motherhood itself. I highly recommend the beautiful literary and visual offerings of this outstanding group of wise artists.”
—Angie Abdou, author of This One Wild Life: A Mother-Daughter Wilderness Memoir

Description

(M)othering is a universally understood phenomenon that speaks to the act of becoming something unexpected and entirely outside ourselves. And this book is a collection of writing and art about that. 56 contributors illuminate the kind of gritty, body mind soul transformations that only the mothering myth can evoke. Their work will take you to wonder and wildness, kindness, beauty, grief, love.

These writers and artists show us what it means to create, to birth something, to love it, and to suffer loss. They share their truths about being persecuted, fleeing. About trans-generational trauma. Some write of broken women, mothering their mothers and sisters, choosing not to be mothers. Having many mothers. Mothering grown children. Men who want to be mothered. They tackle identity, adoption, abortion, addiction, self-care, sacrifice, nature and nurture, making art, unravelling, invention, loneliness, anger, laughter, and joy. They are queer, Metis, indigenous, French, male, Jewish, Mennonite, descendants of the Blackfoot and the Cree, settlers and immigrants. In unison, they speak about experiences far beyond the pathologizing of the pregnant female body.

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About Inanna Publications:

Inanna Publications

Inanna is one of only a very few independent feminist presses in Canada committed to publishing fiction, poetry, and creative non-fiction by and about women.

The editors of (M)othering wish to remember and honour former Editor-in Chief, Luciana Ricciutelli, who loved this book from the start. We also wish to thank Renee Knapp, Brenda Cranney, Ashley Rayner, Marlene Kadar, Kimmy Beach, and the rest of the team at Inanna for their continuing dedication to publishing, especially during the pandemic which ‘changed everything’ early in 2020. Without their particular kind of perseverance, books like this one would not be published.

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Editors

Heidi Grogan

Heidi Grogan MA

Heidi Grogan currently teaches creative writing at the University of Calgary. Her career has been shaped by her offerings of courses in literature, history, social justice, and memoir and spiritual writing to university students and women in recovery at St. Mary’s University, Ambrose University, and community agencies. In addition, she was recently Program Coordinator for The Shoe Project in Calgary (September 2018 – January 2019), which supports immigrant and refugee women in writing and performing their journey stories.

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Heidi’s writing has been published by Caitlin Press and The Upper Room and in Canadian and US literary magazines and journals including ROOM, Weavings, and online with Weavings. Both her writing, and her work at the university level, attend to issues at the intersection of trauma, social justice, and spirituality. For Heidi, these areas of focus are also strongly and integrally connected to her work on the (M)othering Anthology.

About the (M)othering Anthology Heidi says…

When Anne shared her encounter with the word (M)othering with me, I was immersed in the aftereffects of witnessing my mother’s cremation: examining her othering, her transformation, her straining to be a good mother. And the term saw me taking time to consider, to attend to my mother’s layers of constructed identity, layers of longing and goodness and failure and, ultimately, of being consumed in her desire to be a good mother. She was. And she was not.

(M)othering is the loaded term that speaks to all that is created and costly. Of great significance. I’ve held, rocked, consoled, and lifted up ideas that turned into initiatives, and grew into community social programs. I’ve nurtured ideas from conception to (often painful) delivery, and then tried to look after the goodness that resulted so that it would flourish and be resilient, would not get squashed when life happens to it.

I am an adoptive mother. I pause here, as there is too much to say about my children’s birth mothers and how they inform my “othering” every day. Perhaps because of the adoptive experience of conceiving, gestating, birthing, nurturing and letting go, in ways that exhilarate and devastate differently than biological processes, I’ve come to know the significance of mothering as both an abstract and visceral reality.

In this, I’ve gone from thinking of mothering as parent-child only, to mothering that encompasses that which I care about, that which I am committed to loving into being, and to standing alongside, come what may, even when it is messy.

I have come to realize the sameness of physical mothering and the mothering of ideas and life-giving initiatives.

The concept of (M)othering is rich and gives me room to move…room to stand in my own shape.

Anne Sorbie

Anne Sorbie MA

Anne Sorbie is an author and an editor who is interested in connections between the Canadian landscape and the lives of the people who live with its extremes. Her current work takes up ideas of identity and migration, particularly in the contexts of (i) migration and transformation. Her investigation of identity includes research into the effects of social, familial, political, physical, emotional, psychological and geographical movement.

Anne’s fiction, poetry, essays and book reviews have been published by Thistledown Press, Inanna Publications, The University of Alberta Press, Frontenac House, and House of Blue Skies; in magazines and journals such as Alberta Views, Geist, and Other Voices; and online with Brick Books, CBC Canada Writes, Geist, and Wax Poetry and Art.

Her poetry collection, Falling Backwards Into Mirrors, was released by Inanna Publications in 2019.

Here is some background from Anne about the (M)othering project…

I arrived at this particular form of the word mothering in a poem I wrote about grief and loss and family. The poem is called “Echoes of Diving Into the Wreck.” It was originally published in 2015, and today, it is a key piece in, Falling Backwards Into Mirrors (Inanna 2019).

“Diving,” is a meditation on othering. The poem grew out of witnessing a myriad of strange behaviours and eccentricities in the rituals that occurred before after my mother died. In it the speaker sees “the terrible fish / of her own reflection” and recognizes herself as “(m)otherless.”

In my work I often use the concept of diving the way Adrienne Rich did: as a metaphor when I want to delve deeply, find missing stories about the lives of girls and women, and at this time especially, curate stories about mothering, the kind that alters identity.

As co-editors, Heidi Grogan and I understand that the range of this topic, and approaches to it, are much broader than biological mothering, adoptive mothering, or parent-child mothering. We believe mothering goes beyond those things, that the subject is immense and critical to our understanding of who we are as a species, especially at this strange, unbalancing, and transformative time in our history.

We believe that mothering is tied to the intricacies of self / identity—of all people(s).